Online dating burn book. Unfiltered.

Your dates have a history.
Now you can see it.

Flag cheaters, ghosters, liars, and creeps — or leave a green flag for the good ones. The dating accountability platform the apps won't build.

Free to search. No account needed.

100%
Free to use
Anonymous
Reporter identity protected
Verified
Phone-verified accounts
Fair
Flagged people can respond

How it works

Three steps to transparency

01

Search

Look up anyone by name and city. See their flags — red and green — before your next date.

02

Flag

Had an experience? Flag it. Cheater, ghoster, catfish — or leave a green flag for someone genuine.

03

Respond

Been flagged? Claim your profile, verify your identity, and tell your side. Both sides shown equally.

Flag types

Red flags & Green flags

Not just the bad — celebrate the good too.

Red Flags

Catfishing / fake photos
Cheater / undisclosed relationship
Ghoster
Love-bomber / manipulator
Financial scammer
Harassment / stalking
Physical safety concern
Liar / misrepresented themselves
Creep factor
Bad date (general)

Green Flags

Photos match reality
Honest and transparent
Respectful communicator
Great first date
Genuine person
Respectful when declined
Safe and trustworthy
Good listener
Consistent and reliable
Would recommend

Why FlagADate

The dating apps won't protect you.
We will.

Dating apps profit from keeping you swiping. They have zero incentive to warn you about the person you're about to meet. FlagADate is the transparency layer they'll never build.

Flag someone now

Transparent

Every flag is public. Flagged people can respond. No hidden agendas.

Community-driven

Real people sharing real experiences. Phone-verified to prevent spam.

Fair

Both sides get equal visibility. Claim your profile and tell your side.

Pattern detection

One flag is an incident. Multiple flags from different people is a pattern.

Know who you're dating.

Search for free. Flag for free. No catches.